You Can Cut Back on Your Drinking

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By Deborah-Diane

Some social drinking is fine; but if it is creating problems, you may need to stop or cut back on your drinking.
Some social drinking is fine; but if it is creating problems, you may need to stop or cut back on your drinking.
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Dealing with a Periodic Drinking Problem

There are many people who may not feel that they are alcoholics, but they realize that they have a periodic drinking problem. They may be able to go weeks, or longer, without overindulging in alcohol. However, whenever the annual company picnic or Christmas party rolls around, they consistently embarrass themselves by drinking too much, talking too loudly, or generally acting foolish. Whenever these special occasions arise, they may secretly cringe, fearful of repeating past mistakes. If you have trouble sticking with a comfortable limit on your alcohol consumption at parties and weddings, these suggestions may help.

Avoid Drinking on an Empty Stomach

The first thing you can do to keep from over-indulging in alcohol is to start out with a full stomach. Before you leave the house, eat some food that includes a protein and a starch. A roast beef or turkey sandwich would do a lot to fill your stomach, and lessen the chance that you will get drunk too easily. Continue to eat during the evening. Food slows the absorption of alcohol into your system. In addition, make sure you also drink a large glass or two of water, tea or a similar non-alcoholic beverage. Then, you will not arrive at the party feeling thirsty.

Give Yourself an Alcohol Limit

If you do not usually have a problem with alcohol, you should have no trouble limiting the amount that you will drink during the evening. If you are not hungry or thirsty, you should be able to slowly slip one or two drinks during the evening, and not feel the urge to gulp them down.

Enjoy Some Non-Alcoholic Beverages

Another good technique is to alternate your alcoholic beverages with non-alcoholic ones. After your first cocktail or glass of wine, ask for a glass of juice or soda and slowly sip it. Most people will not even notice that you have made the switch. If they do, only the alcoholics will care!

You Can Turn Down Alcoholic Drinks

Don’t be afraid to say “No, thanks” to the offer of another drink. If it makes you uncomfortable, you can always use an excuse such as “I’m driving,” “I think I’m coming down with a virus,” or “I’m on a medication that I shouldn’t mix with alcohol.” However, even if you can’t think of an excuse, there is no reason why you cannot simply say “No!”

If these suggestions don’t seem to be helping you to cut down on your drinking, and you discover that your tendency to drink too much happens more than just a few times a year, you may have a more serious problem. If so, you may want to contact Alcoholics Anonymous for greater assistance. Meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous are held around the world nearly every night of the week.

Alcoholics Anonymous Books May Help You

Alcoholics Anonymous: The Big Book, 4th Edition
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
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Gordon Hamilton Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

Excellent advice, Deborah. I am sure it will be of considerable practical use to a great many people. I would love to say that I have never fallen in to the traps you describe how to guard against... :)

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lovesleftovers Level 1 Commenter 10 months ago

You give some great advice Diane. Coming from an alcoholic home I can relate. Informative advice :)

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prasetio30 Level 8 Commenter 10 months ago

I don't like drinking. I love fruit juice than alcohol. Thanks for share this tips. Very useful for us. Peace, prasetio

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quester.ltd 10 months ago

One of the 'tricks' I use is ask for water with a slice of lime - no one thinks about drinking water that way at a cocktail party - so 'drink' and enjoy!

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Jackie Lynnley Level 7 Commenter 9 months ago

You know I know most people would think it was just awful but my dad use to buy rock and rye, sherry, just tasty drinks and let us taste them (me and 4 younger brothers) and if we were sick with a cold he gave us a tiny hot toddy which was whiskey, hot water, honey and ginger and there is none of us with a drinking problem and I have absolutely no desire for any of it. Just wonder if it weren't hid back or forbidden to look like such a temptation would it possible be better? Of course with alcoholic parents i couldn't really say since Mom didn't drink and Dad didn't but maybe once or twice a month.

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Deborah-Diane Hub Author 9 months ago

You make a good point. When our daughters were high school exchange students in France, they drank watered down wine with their meals. Very common there!

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Jeannieinabottle Level 7 Commenter 9 months ago

This is all very good advice. It is true that this type of drinker usually does not think he or she has a problem. However, it can be an issue in certain situations, especially work functions. Voted up!

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Springboard Level 5 Commenter 9 months ago

There are two dangerous words spoken, particularly at weddings. "Open bar." They always seem to get me. Something about a man and free beer. :)

Very sound advise here, and my wife will be happy I read it. She will be even happier if I implement some of what I've read.

At least I CAN say that I don't usually wind up on top of tables, nude, singing karaoke, or making awful Austin Powers impressions...

At least not that I can remember...

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special4k 8 months ago

Very, very useful advice Deborah. I have used them all and appreciate your candor. Voted up!

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